How Do You Get Over Problems?

Step One: Do not blame others when you fail
Never blame anybody for what happens! If you fail or fall do not blame your parents, husband or wife, not even the government of the day. Many people blame the government of their nations for their own failure, remember that those others who are successful are in the same nation with you. To blame any other person for your failure is to play the fool, this is the fact, you are responsible for your life, not your wife, not your husband, not the government. When you know this truth, it helps you to get over the problems and move on. You are the one that is responsible for anything that happens in your life, so assume full responsibilities NOW.

When you blame others, you will not be able to get over it, and this will block you from learning the important lesson that God is trying to use that problem to teach you. When you blame others and refused to get over it, then you will not be able to focus in the right direction. Adam was asked where he was, he blamed his wife Eve for making him to sin, he did not take responsibilities, Eve blamed the serpent. When are you going to stop blaming others for your own failure? When you blame others, you will not be able to think out the best way out. When you have a problem the next thing to do is to think about the best way out, not to look back and blame others, but move forward and get over it.

Step Two:
Take Quick Decisive Action
Do not sit down bemoaning your loss, think out a solution and act fast; remember that there is always a way out of every problem. Bible says there is no temptation taken you but such as is common to man, but God is faithful, and will not permit you to be tempted above what you can bear; and will also provide for you a way of escape. The best way to get over it is to think of a solution now, for example, if you need any amount of money, by simply writing down 10 ways or things you can do to get it, you will be surprised how ideas and inspirations will flow to your mind with actual solutions surfacing in no distant time at all. The next thing is to start acting on any of the 10 points that you know will work, you must act quickly and fast too. Delay may be dangerous.

What you should do today should not be postponed till tomorrow. Man's life is like a candle, the day you are born, the candle is lighted and it burns away everyday, we either waste away everyday or we are used away everyday. The passing of each day takes you nearer to your grave and this does not exclude anybody on the face of the earth. This truth must not be forgotten, and that is, if you suddenly discovered that you've been going in the wrong direction, the wise thing to do is turn around now and do the right thing; and by all means go the right direction. It can never be too late to do the right thing, even if it is a day to the end of your life. There is something about doing the right things that makes life better, do it now, do not postpone it any longer.