Save Your Marriage

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Save Your Marriage
Marriage is an institution which was established by God when He created man. The bible says that God sees that it is not good that man should be alone, so he made an helper for him, and that is the woman. When the man saw her for the first time, he exclaimed, "this is now the bone of my bones and the flesh of my flesh, she shall be called woman." God brought his wife, and he recognized her immediately, when you see your wife or husband, that thing on the inside of you will click, the love deep down there will well up and go for that person. It is a knowing that we cannot explain particularly, it is inside everyone of us, the problem is that we are too much in a hurry to notice it.

In this write-up, I am examining the science of saving your marriage because I know that God values marriage and did not design it to be broken or for it to end in divorce. You have a part to play as a man or woman to keep that marriage. There are many reasons why you need to keep your marriage, the most important thing to note is that every marriage will be fought against by the devil, so you need to understand from the very beginning that conscious effort from you is needed to make your marriage work.

The society is becoming increasingly sophisticated that marriage values are rapidly declining, in South Africa where I presently live, most young ladies I see around are single mothers. More marriages are failing with the passing of each day, and except individuals do something urgently and desperately about their marriages, more divorces will take place in the years to come. When a marriage begins to produce children, the man and wife have greater responsibilities to make their relationship work for the children sake. Research shows that many of the people that have become dangerous and destructive to the society comes from broken homes. Many truly happily married couples live longer and raise more successful children than families that broke up or separated.

Many things out there are competing for the attention of your spouse. many unmarried people are out there to snatch husbands or wives that are not taken care of or respected at home. Love is a very important aspect of the marriage life, the degree of the love between man and wife will naturally rub off on the children. It has been scientifically proved that children whose parents love each other and who are loved and raised by both parents always do better. Keeping your marriage is a responsibility that holds reward for you here on earth and up there when we get to heaven. Go all out to make your marriage work, just Click Here! to learn more and please drop a comment here.

Can one spouse prevent a divorce from happening?

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By Adenuga Sunday Joseph

If one person does not want to get a divorce, but one party in the relationship does and it is a no fault divorce, then the spouse cannot stop the divorce. This is called an irreconcilable difference and is a justification for divorce.

A spouse can prevent a fault divorce by convincing the court that he or she is not at fault. This is something that they would have to prove and it is up to the judge to decide. There are other additional ways to defend a divorce from happening may also be a choice for some situations.

If a person who condones that a spouse is having an affair files for a divorce, the spouse may contest the fault divorce by arguing that the spouse knew of the affair and condoned the action. This is one way for a person to defend himself or herself in court.

Connivance is the setting up of a situation so that the other person commits something to jeopardize the marriage. One type of situation to explain is if a women sets up her husband in situation where he is alone with his mistress. This is known as a set up and it is an argument that one can make in court to defend their actions.

Provocation is the inciting of a spouse to do a certain act. If a spouse is suing for divorce and claims that the other spouse abandoned them, the other spouse might defend their suit because they were provoked by the abandonment. Collusion is if a couple lives in a state where no fault divorce requires that the couple separate for a time and the couple doe not want to prolong the situation. This may lead the couple to mislead the court and pretend that one of them was at fault just to get out of the marriage.

These above defenses are not usually used for a few different reasons. Proving a defense may require witnesses and involve a lot of time and expense. Your efforts will usually bring nothing to the situation. Chances are that a court will eventually grant the divorce. A person should not have to stay married if they do not wish too. The law is designed to give people the opportunity to get out of the marriage if that is what he or she really wants to do. If you are involved in a marriage that you don't want to be in any longer, the process can be hard to get through, but you can make a divorce really happen, and put an end to the marriage.